FAQ & Etiquette

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Why do you need to know what industry I work in?

For privacy reasons I need to know what industry you work in, so that if by chance we work in a similar industry during our 9-5 jobs, I can refer you as a client to one of my lovely friends instead.

What if we see each other out in public?

If we see each other in public outside of a session, I will use my utmost discretion and pretend we have never met before. I expect the same in return.

What about hygiene?

Please brush your teeth before arriving for our session. You’ll be asked to shower upon arrival at my incall space, so you can make sure you’ve attended carefully to your personal hygiene. I have mouthwash, and other products to help you freshen up.

How should I prepare for a BDSM session?

I’ll discuss with you via email how you should prepare your hygiene, body and mental state for our scene. You’ll need to clearly communicate your boundaries, pain tolerance, limits and desires so I can effectively plan out our time together.

If we haven’t played together before and the number of emails I receive from you becomes excessive, you’ll be required to send a 50% deposit by e-transfer, to continue such a sexually explicit conversation.

Do you offer full service?

No. I don’t offer oral, kissing, full service, or extra service. I also don’t allow sessions to be filmed.

What payment methods do you accept?

Please either e-Transfer the fee to me ahead of your appointment, or hand the remaining fee to me in cash, in an unsealed envelope before our session begins. My rates are non-negotiable.

I book a very limited number of sessions a month. Because of this, I require a 50% deposit via e-transfer to reserve my time and the incall space. Deposits are non-refundable. If you wish to drop off an in-person deposit, we can arrange that, but it’s an additional $50 if a client requires me to make extra time/travel to see them in person to accept payment.

How do you prefer we communicate?

Please contact me through the booking page. I’ll get back to you by email, and going forward we can continue to communicate and schedule through email.

What about cancellations, tardiness, timing?

Please do not arrive early—I will be preparing myself and the space for our scene. If you are early, please be patient and wait outside or in your vehicle until our appointment time.
Due to the unique nature of my sessions, intense admin work and pre-planning of our BDSM scene that happens long before we meet, and the energy and time that goes into preparing my body and mind for a custom tantalizing experience, I require 48 hours’ notice if you need to cancel, so I can attempt to book the time with another client. If you cancel a session with less than 48 hours’ notice, you will be required to pay your full session fee before my friends or I consider booking you again in the future. If you cancel, your deposit is forfeit. There’s no “credit” saved on file if you cancel after paying the deposit or the full session fee in advance.

If you’re going to be late, notify me as soon as you can via email. If on the rare occasion, I need to reschedule, I’ll do my best to let you know in a timely manner as well.

Do you offer outcalls?

I do not usually offer outcalls. My space is clean, inviting, comfortable, and discrete.

Who are some of the other service providers you offer duo/trio/group sessions with?

I’d love to discuss the details of booking a kinky duo/trio/group session during the booking process.

If you have a specific service provider in mind that you’d like to join us, feel free to ask me about it.

Do you require a deposit?

Do you accept tips or gifts?

Why yes, if it would please you to gift your Goddess something extra, I love white wine (off-dry or medium), cash tips, gift certificates to Killstar.com (goth clothing) and BlackMilkClothing.com, Starbucks, Wasabi Sushi, Amsterdam Tea Room, Sephora and Coal and Canary. You’ll definitely be on my mind and in my heart while I indulge!

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